Ten Things Nurse Managers Wish Their CNOs Knew But Some Don't
2026-11-05 01:00:09By Rose O. Sherman, EdD, RN, NEA-BC, FAAN
It always surprises me when I go on-site to do nurse manager workshops and the CNO isn’t present for any of the discussions. Some CNOs are quite the opposite and stay all day. There is never any awkwardness because I have found that nurse managers are diplomatic and rarely look for people to blame; they just want to be heard. The following are ten things nurse managers often share with me, and some, but not all, CNOs know.
1. “My job has become too big for one person.” The nurse manager role has expanded to include staffing, quality, patient experience, financial performance, employee engagement, regulatory compliance, and constant problem-solving. Something has to give, and telling a manager to do more with less can feel insulting.
2. “Having enough nurses is not the same as having enough experience.” A unit may meet its staffing targets but still be clinically vulnerable when most nurses have fewer than two years of experience. Novice density changes the support and supervision a unit needs. As our novice density increases, so too does leader intensity.
3. “My experienced nurses are carrying an invisible workload.” Experienced nurses coach novices, catch errors, anticipate problems, and rescue struggling colleagues while managing their own patients. This work rarely appears in staffing calculations. They need the bonuses, not new graduates.
4. “I spend much of my day putting out fires instead of leading.” Constant interruptions, staffing problems, and operational demands leave little time for coaching, developing staff, improving practice, or thinking strategically.
5. “Every new initiative adds work, but almost nothing gets taken away.” Nurse managers are expected to implement new programs, technologies, reporting requirements, and organizational priorities without eliminating older responsibilities. Nothing is ever taken off our plates – things are just added.
6. “I need more than encouragement to build a healthy work environment.” Psychological safety, accountability, teamwork, and retention require time, leadership development, consistent organizational support, and the authority to address difficult behaviors.
7. “My charge nurses are often novices at leadership themselves.” Nurses with 18 months or two years of experience may be placed in charge roles before they have developed the clinical judgment, conflict management, delegation, and team leadership skills those roles require.
8. “I am held accountable for outcomes and metrics I cannot fully control.” Nurse managers are responsible for turnover, overtime, staffing, patient experience, and quality outcomes, yet they may have limited influence over budgets, hiring, staffing resources, support from other departments, or organizational policies.
9. “I don’t always feel safe telling senior leadership how bad things really are.” Managers may worry that raising concerns will make them appear negative, ineffective, or unable to handle their responsibilities. As a result, executives often get an incomplete picture of frontline conditions. One manager shared: ” My CNO only wants happy news.”
10. “I love nursing leadership, but I don’t know how long I can keep doing this.” Even highly committed managers can become exhausted when their workload is unsustainable, and their efforts seem insufficient. Losing these leaders also means losing valuable organizational knowledge and relationships.
The question for CNOs is not simply whether nurse managers are resilient enough. It is whether the organization has designed a nurse manager role that is realistically achievable. If your nurse managers could speak with complete candor and without fear of consequences, what would they tell you?
© emergingrnleader.com 2026
To lead through these challenges and others effectively, nurse leaders need new tools and strategies. Let me help; I have supported hundreds of organizations over the past six years. Please contact me at roseosherman@outlook.com to book a workshop or keynote for your team. Not seeing what you want on this list? Feel free to reach out, and I am happy to design a custom program to meet your needs.
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2026-11-03 01:00:50I am proud to partner with Northwest ONL for the Inverted Pyramid of Nursing Experience workshop on December 8th, 2026, from 10 AM to 12 PM PST. This is the last Inverted Pyramid workshop offered in 2026, so as you plan your strategy for 2027, you won’t want to miss it.
One CNO recently told me she is using the Inverted Pyramid to explain what is happening in both the C-suite and with her board. After the program, she did both a novice density and acute care experience audit on all units in her hospital and presented the data to her executive colleagues. She reported that “they really seemed shocked at how much our workforce in both nursing and other departments has changed over the past five years. It gave me the language to explain what we are experiencing.”
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The Invisible Work of Experienced Nurses
2026-10-26 01:00:20By Rose O. Sherman, EdD, RN, NEA-BC, FAAN
When an experienced nurse leaves a hospital, we often measure the loss in familiar ways: turnover costs, vacancy rates, recruitment expenses, and the time required to orient a replacement. But what if the greatest loss is something we are not measuring? Experienced nurses do an enormous amount of invisible work that keeps patients safe, supports novice nurses, and helps nursing units function effectively. Much of this work is never documented, formally assigned, or recognized in staffing calculations. Yet it may be among their most important contributions.
The Clinical Safety Net We Take for Granted
Think about the experienced nurse who walks past a patient’s room, notices something subtle, and stops to investigate. The patient does not look quite right. There may be no alarming vital signs or obvious deterioration, but something about the situation raises concern. Or consider the experienced charge nurse who recognizes that a novice colleague is becoming overwhelmed before that nurse asks for help. These are examples of clinical judgment developed over years of practice. Experienced nurses recognize patterns, anticipate complications, and often intervene before problems become emergencies. Their contributions aren’t always visible because the adverse events they prevent never happen.
Five Types of Invisible Work Experienced Nurses Contribute to Units
Experienced nurses contribute to unit safety in ways that go far beyond their individual patient assignments.
1. Clinical Surveillance
They notice subtle changes, connect seemingly unrelated clinical findings, and recognize deterioration before standard monitoring systems trigger an alert.
2. Informal Coaching
They answer questions, validate assessments, help novice nurses think through clinical decisions, and reassure them in unfamiliar situations. Much of this coaching happens spontaneously throughout a shift.
3. Anticipating Problems
Experienced nurses think several steps ahead. They recognize potential complications, anticipate resource needs, and identify workflow problems before they disrupt patient care.
4. Helping Teams Recover
When admissions arrive unexpectedly, patients deteriorate, or staffing changes occur, experienced nurses know how to reprioritize and redistribute work. They help stabilize the unit when the original plan no longer works.
5. Preventing Errors
They quietly catch medication discrepancies, question unusual orders, recognize missing information, and intervene when something does not seem right.
These contributions rarely appear in productivity reports, but they are essential to safe care. The Inverted Pyramid of Nursing Experience is changing that dynamic as units have fewer and fewer experienced nurses today. The informal safety net is disappearing. As nursing teams become more novice-dense, experienced nurses often take on more invisible work. They may carry a full patient assignment while also answering questions, supporting new graduates, helping with complex clinical decisions, and managing unexpected events. This additional cognitive and emotional work is rarely reflected in staffing assignments or workload calculations. An experienced nurse may appear to have the same number of patients as everyone else while carrying significantly greater responsibility for the team’s safety and functioning.
The few experienced nurses left feel overwhelmed and underappreciated. During a recent session, nurse managers uniformly agreed that we are ignoring these experienced nurses; they receive far less professional development than they did in the past and don’t get the sign-on bonuses new graduates receive. Managers are also burned out and exhausted because they are picking up more of this invisible work.
Yet many organizations continue to operate as though their nursing workforce’s experience composition has not changed. We use the same staffing approaches, assign similar workloads, and expect the same informal support systems to function. Ironically, the nurses we most need to retain may be the ones carrying the greatest invisible workload.
How Do We Make the Invisible Visible
To make the invisible visible, nurse leaders need to ask different questions:
- How much informal coaching are experienced nurses providing during a typical shift?
- Who serves as the clinical safety net when novice nurses encounter unfamiliar situations?
- Are experienced nurses receiving workload adjustments for their mentoring and surveillance responsibilities?
- What happens on shifts when few experienced nurses are available?
- Which critical safety processes depend on knowledge that exists only in the heads of experienced staff?
These questions should become part of staffing discussions, workforce planning, and unit-based risk assessments. We also need to recognize that retaining experienced nurses requires more than asking them to stay. It means redesigning their roles so that their expertise is valued, their contributions are visible, and their workload is sustainable. When experienced nurses leave, hospitals lose much more than years of service. They lose clinical intuition, organizational memory, informal mentoring capacity, and countless small interventions that prevent larger problems. Much of this work has remained invisible because it was always there. In today’s novice-dense nursing environment, we can no longer afford to take it for granted.
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© emergingrnleader.com 2026
To lead through these challenges and others effectively, nurse leaders need new tools and strategies. Let me help, Ihave supported hundreds of organizations over the past six years. Please contact me at roseosherman@outlook.com to book a workshop or keynote for your team. Not seeing what you want on this list? Feel free to reach out, and I am happy to design a custom program to meet your needs.
Staying Power: Building a Culture of Retention in the New World of Work
Brand New in 2026 with Rave Reviews – The Inverted Pyramid: Leading Teams of Novice Nurses The Inverted Pyramid WS Information Sheet
Our Most Popular Right Now –The New World of Work Workshop
A Leader Favorite – Building Bridges Not Walls: Leading Multigenerational Work Teams – Click Here for More Information Building Bridges Not Walls
A Must-Read Book in 2026 – Click Here to Buy

Workshop - Staying Power: Building a Culture of Retention in the New World of Work
2026-10-23 10:14:07I am sure many of you saw the article in this week’s Wall Street Journal about the challenges of nurse retention in acute care environments. I am happy to partner with NE ONL on our highly rated program, Staying Power: Building a Culture of Retention in the New World of Work, which is offered on November 10th. In this program, we talk about a multifaceted approach to retention today and the best practices we are seeing across the country. If you are struggling to retain nurses, why not register your team and hold a watch party? Register with this LINK – https://lnkd.in/ens264Sf(opens in new tab)
The Inverted Pyramid of Nursing Experience Workshop
2026-10-23 01:00:01I am happy to partner with the NY ONL on this important new workshop on the Inverted Pyramid of Nursing Experience™, a growing trend in acute care settings, as noted in a recent Wall Street Journal article about today’s hospital turnover. This workshop addresses a stark truth every nurse executive, director, and frontline manager must face: You cannot staff your way out of an experience gap using traditional metrics. Different tools and strategies are needed. You don’t need to be an NY ONL member to attend. Why not register your team and do a watch party? LINK TO REGISTRATION
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